The muted light of a winter’s day filtered through the windows of the hospice café, casting soft shadows across the room. The gentle hum of conversation mingled with the clinking of teacups, creating a soothing symphony of everyday sounds. I settled into a chair, appreciating the warmth radiating from the nearby radiator as I gazed out at the wintry scene. The bare branches of the trees in the garden were etched against a steely grey sky, and the ground was frosted with a thin layer of ice. It was here, in this tranquil haven, amidst the stark beauty of winter, that I discovered an unexpected connection to my family history. My beloved Aunt Clarissa, a woman I had always admired for her quiet strength and unwavering kindness, had been one of the founding members of this remarkable institution.
It’s funny how life can surprise you. I was sitting here in the hospice café, scrolling through Facebook, when a post from St Mary’s caught my eye. It was a photo from a recent celebration, and there, amidst the smiling faces, was my Aunt Clarissa! The caption mentioned her as one of the founding members from 35 years ago. My heart skipped a beat. I had visited the hospice countless times, enjoyed their peaceful gardens, and even indulged in their delicious cakes, but I never knew about Aunty Clarissa’s connection.
It all started back in 1984. Aunt Clarissa, along with Lord Cavendish, Reverend Nick Gosswin, and Margaret Berry, had a vision. They saw a need for a hospice in South Cumbria, a place where people facing life-limiting illnesses could find comfort and support. It was their determination that inspired the community to raise an incredible £600,000 in just four years, and in 1988, St Mary’s Hospice was born.
But they needed a home, a place in the heart of the community. That’s where Bob Wright, a kind-hearted Ulverston shopkeeper, stepped in. Through his generosity, the hospice found its home in a Victorian mansion on the outskirts of Ulverston, a place with ample grounds and the potential to grow. Mr Wright’s legacy lives on, not just in the building itself, but in the significant funds he left to the hospice in his will.
In those early days, the hospice was a converted house, offering six inpatient beds and space for 35 day patients. The tireless carers and volunteers, led by Matron Joan Pollit, created an atmosphere of warmth and compassion. Joan believed that patients should “live for the moment” and find joy even in the most challenging circumstances, an ethos that continues to guide St Mary’s today.
Through hard work and dedication, the hospice thrived. By 1995, almost 1,500 patients had been cared for within its walls. But as demand grew, it became clear that they needed to expand. Once again, the community rallied, raising funds for a new inpatient facility. In 1997, the modern facility we know today was opened, with nine beds and exceptional facilities for patients and their families.
And who could forget Princess Diana’s visit in 1990? Her warmth and compassion touched everyone she met, and her visit is still remembered fondly by those who were there.
Today, St Mary’s Hospice is one of the largest charitable organisations in South Cumbria. With running costs of £3.5 million per year, it takes a dedicated team of nurses, carers, gardeners, and volunteers to keep the hospice vision alive. Just like in the early days, St Mary’s relies on the generosity of the community to continue its vital work.
As I sat there in the café, sipping my tea, I couldn’t help but feel a wave of emotions wash over me. Pride, of course, for the incredible woman my aunt was. But also a tinge of sadness that I had never known about this part of her life, that we had never spoken about it. And a renewed sense of appreciation for the haven she helped create.
The hospice’s commitment to holistic care extended beyond medical treatment. It embraced the power of human connection, offering emotional and spiritual support to patients and their loved ones. The gardens, a serene oasis, provided a peaceful retreat for those seeking solace in nature’s beauty.
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